2. Toxic or Abusive Family Members
Not all family is safe.
Relatives with a history of manipulation, emotional abuse, or constant conflict can disrupt the atmosphere and turn a moment of mourning into chaos.
A funeral should be a place of comfort and unity—not survival mode.
3. Individuals Known to Create Conflict
Some people consistently:
Start arguments
Reopen old wounds
Attempt to control or dominate events
If someone has a pattern of stirring tension, it is reasonable to protect the service from becoming a battleground.
