Emotional manipulation: a risk not to be ignored
We must also accept a more uncomfortable reality: sometimes, “I love you” serves to maintain a bond without any real intention of leaving the spouse. These words become a way to keep a door open, to nourish an emotional need or to flatter the ego.
This form of manipulation is often subtle. It does not manifest itself in obvious violence, but can be profoundly destructive for those who hope. In the long term, it weakens self-esteem and creates an emotional dependence that is difficult to overcome.
What if he was really in love?
Yes, this situation exists. A man can sincerely love another woman while feeling trapped in a marriage he doesn’t dare break up. Fear of consequences, children, financial aspects or the way those around you look at them are all powerful obstacles.
An essential question then arises: are you ready to wait? To accept a hidden, uncertain relationship, without a clear deadline? To experience an emotional roller coaster every day? Love, even authentic love, is not always enough to build a balanced relationship.
The uncomfortable place of “the other”
