2. “You’re old and you don’t understand.”
Behind this phrase is a lack of empathy and an attempt to invalidate your opinion. Age does not erase wisdom, it multiplies it.
generational contempt.
Maintain your dignity. Don’t try to convince, just stay away from those who believe that age detracts from value.
3. “I didn’t ask you to raise me.”
Few phrases hurt so much. It is a cruel way of rejecting the love and sacrifices of a lifetime.
lack of gratitude and deep empathy.
Don’t try to justify yourself. A child who does not recognize what he received will not value what you give him now either.
4. “You’re exaggerating” or “You’re always complaining.”
These types of responses seek to silence your emotions and make you doubt what you feel.
emotional invalidation.
Trust your perception. If something hurts you, it’s valid. Don’t get used to keeping quiet for fear of disturbing.
5. “You owe me everything I have.”
The love of parents is not a debt that children collect for life. This phrase is a form of emotional blackmail.
economic or affective manipulation.
Set clear boundaries. Affection is not bought or negotiated.
6. “I don’t need your opinion.”
Behind this rejection there is pride and lack of respect. No one is obligated to follow your advice, but to dismiss your word altogether is an act of contempt.
devaluation of your experience.
Don’t insist on being heard. Whoever does not value your voice, does not deserve your painful silence, but your serene distance.
