I Held a Grudge Against My Father

One afternoon, a friend proudly showed off his brand-new iPad. Everyone crowded around him. I smiled, nodded—and went home boiling inside.

That night, I said things I can never take back.

I accused my father of not trying hard enough. Of failing me. Of giving me a life where I always had to settle for less. I watched his shoulders sink and saw the hurt flash across his face before he buried it in silence. He didn’t argue. He didn’t defend himself.

And I didn’t apologize.

A week later, my world collapsed.

My father suffered a heart attack.

I ran through the hospital doors shaking, my chest tight with fear and regret. As I sat in the hallway replaying my words over and over, a man approached me. He introduced himself as my father’s supervisor.

At first, he didn’t realize who I was. But when he did, his tone changed.

Then he told me things I had never known.

He said my dad was always the first to arrive and the last to leave. That he volunteered for the hardest shifts—the ones no one else wanted. That he’d been offered higher-paying positions more than once, but turned them down because they required relocating or working hours that would leave me alone at night.