I Denied My Husband’s Dying Ex One Last Goodbye—Then Her Final Gift Broke Me

Inside was a worn teddy bear.

The same one from every baby photo I had ever seen of my stepdaughter. The bear with the flattened ear and stitched smile. The bear she had once clutched in pictures, long before I ever existed in her life.
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There was a note tucked beneath it.

It was written to me.

“I’m sending this to her, but I know you’ll probably see it first. This bear—she slept with it until she was four. I understood why you said no to my call. I wasn’t a good mom back then. But I need you to know I never stopped being her mother, even from a distance. Please give this to her when you think she’s ready.”

I sat on the floor holding that bear for over an hour.

The weight of it in my hands felt heavier than it should have been—heavy with years, with regret, with a love that had never known how to stay. Tears streamed down my face as memories collided with truths I hadn’t wanted to face.

She hadn’t been a good mother.

But she had been a mother.