The needs don’t disappear, they are appeased… on the surface
The need for closeness, tenderness, or affection doesn’t disappear. It simply becomes more discreet. We can bury it, forget it for a while, but it often ends up resurfacing in the form of frustration, melancholy, or a longing for something else.
Less complicity, more stress
This deep human connection releases hormones in our bodies that soothe, comfort, and create a sense of security. When it’s lacking, our bodies can enter a state of tension more frequently: restless sleep, nervousness, irritability… all signals that shouldn’t be ignored.
Other areas are taking over… but not completely
Some women fill this void with a stimulating career, personal projects, or strong friendships. And that’s wonderful! But even with a full life, there can remain a kind of lack that nothing else truly replaces: the lack of an intimate and sincere connection with someone.
